i'm sorry.. we don't...
it is not a good feeling being said no to.. it does not feel
good...
if we love the lady, we will do what we can.. hopefully change her
mind about things...
but after a while, if no is no, we will go away.. because it only
brings grief to both the lady and ourselves..
however, if the 'no' doesn't mean no.. because i've seen it myself
how some women play with the emotions of men thinking it's a game,
it will all end in tears... the man may walk, the woman may feel
terrible for pushing him away, and both are torn up...
so.. if you think there is a chance, and you want to let it happen,
don't string him along... go tell him there may be a chance... and
you may change your mind...
and both the good men and women have been abused so much in the
past that all are wary..
the heart is not a toy to be played with... treat it like china in
your hands...
